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Courtside Forever is a podcast for parents swept up in the circus of everyday problems who, despite the world’s best efforts, are still dedicated to seeking intentional moments with their kids. I’m your host, Ryan Rucker, and each week, I will bring you a new episode made for you. We’ll keep it brief for some weeks, diving into a specific topic such as Youth Sports or Paternity Leave in America. These 15-20 minute episodes will focus on overarching themes, statistics, and practical next steps parents can take. In other weeks, we’ll extend our conversations, inviting parents in sports, business, and other industries to look at how they center parenthood in their lives and touch on our inevitable struggles while building a career, business, and future. Whether you’re a dad or mom or thinking of stepping into the role someday, Courtside Forever is a podcast that aims to recenter the world we’re building for our kids. In 2024, The United States of America declared parenting a public health crisis, citing the way society is set up for the reason we struggle. In the document created by the US Department of Health and Services Department, Parents Under Pressure, Surgeon General Vivek H. Murthy stated, “Raising children is sacred work. It should matter to all of us. And the health and well-being of those who are caring for our children should matter to us as well.” In 2020, I hosted and produced the 8-episode docuseries Complicated Fatherhood, where I spent each episode speaking to my biological dad to understand how his absence from my life affected my Fatherhood. Since wrapping the podcast, I knew I wanted to get back into podcasting, and Courtside Forever is a continuation of my mantra to be ever present in my daughters’ lives. On Courtside Forever, we’ll have fun, get serious, tell stories, and work to focus on the only thing that matters because, as parents, we’ve got the best seats in the house. Let’s enjoy them.
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Tuesday Nov 19, 2024
Tuesday Nov 19, 2024
In this episode of Courtside Forever, we dive into the thought-provoking story of Rudy Gobert, 4x NBA Defensive Player of the Year, who faced an extraordinary decision during the 2024 NBA playoffs. As the Minnesota Timberwolves competed in a pivotal playoff series, Gobert chose to miss Game 2 to witness the birth of his first child. His decision sparked widespread debate about the intersection of professional commitments, family priorities, and societal expectations of fatherhood.
Gobert’s story is not just about basketball—it’s a lens into a broader conversation on paternity leave and the evolving role of fathers in the modern era. Despite the overwhelming support from his team, Gobert faced criticism from some voices in the sports world, including former All-NBA guard Gilbert Arenas, who questioned his decision to prioritize family over a playoff game. Arenas’s comments, along with those of others, reveal a lingering cultural tension: should men sacrifice professional duties for personal milestones, and is it acceptable to put family first, even on the biggest stages?
This episode explores these pressing questions and more. Using Gobert’s story as a springboard, we examine the challenges and opportunities surrounding paternity leave in the United States. From navigating outdated societal norms to dealing with limited workplace support, we highlight the hurdles that many fathers face when trying to be more present for their families. Host Ryan Rucker shares personal anecdotes about his own paternity leave experiences, shedding light on the stark differences between workplaces that support family needs and those that fall short.
We also delve into the benefits of paternity leave for families and children, backed by statistics and compelling studies. Did you know that fathers who take just two weeks of leave are more likely to actively engage in early childcare tasks and build stronger bonds with their children? These moments are about more than just time off—they’re about setting a foundation for family success and challenging outdated notions of masculinity that prioritize work above all else.
But this episode isn’t just about advocacy; it’s also packed with actionable advice. Ryan provides tips for fathers considering paternity leave, from researching its benefits and navigating workplace policies to having meaningful conversations with partners and advocating for better family-friendly practices.
As we wrap up, Ryan leaves listeners with a powerful reminder: work is temporary, but family is forever. Paternity leave isn’t just a perk—it’s an investment in the people who matter most.
Join us for this inspiring, thought-provoking episode of Courtside Forever as we celebrate dads, redefine priorities, and champion the idea that the best seats in the house are the ones where we show up for our families.
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